The Sunday Times had a front page science story about how a man's cerebral cortex shuts down during the act of sex. It's like they become this great sensual, passionate, carnal animal ... or so I like to think.
Women not so much.
So there you are girls. Try to talk to us in the throes and you'll either get an ignorant grunt, or the sand will hit the gear-box and the machine will stop in its tracks.
Sounds no-win to me.